Sunday, February 19, 2006

My Hate-List

I was tagged to do this by Alexis, who is my real life hero.

But preparing this list mentally was hard work and required a lot of internal churning. Also, I am a little scared to put up this list after seeing the response Alexis got for his.

This is not a Hate-List in the strictest sense of the term, as it includes things, which can be in ‘Do Not Like’ to ‘Utterly Despise’ categories.

muhabbat me.n nahii.n hai farq jiine aur marane kaa
usii ko dekh kar jiite hai.n jis kaafir pe dam nikale

Ghalib

A loose translation of this Urdu couplet may mean “In Love there is not much difference between life and death; you live by the sight of the person who is worth dying for.”

I feel the same for Hate. You have to live with the things/qualities you hate, which makes life worthwhile. And, I am not sure if I may start to admire any of these things/qualities in future or in a specific person. This is a list in passing.

01. Strand of long hair any place other than the head (specifically in food).

02. Lethargy (in me. Being physically a very lazy person I feel that I could have gained a lot more from life if I could keep my body active as my brain is).

03. Pompousness/Showing off (would love it if it is integral to someone’s personality e.g. Shah Rukh Khan).

04. Cranky Children (it is the fault of adults. Children should always remain Happy).

05. Bickering.

06. Pep Talkers/Self proclaimed motivators (hate it when total strangers come up & say: “Try, you can do it”. Appreciate it from people who have passed through similar situations or from people I love/respect).

07. Anger (it makes me physically stiff, hampers my abilities to talk, so I always try to delay the thoughts that may bring anger).

08. Lack of Application.

09. Imposing Ideas.

10. Extremism of any kind.

7 comments:

Alexis Leon said...

I too hate the 'self proclaimed motivators.' I always tell them what I think of them. A very sure way of getting into their hate list :-) Good list.

silverine said...

No 1 is an absolute no no for me too. What is weird is that I agree with everybody's hate list :)

Paresh Palicha said...

Alexis: Thnx. Preparing this list helped me to think about my dislike with seriousness.

Silverine: This is amazing. Your comment my blog. I've admired your sense of humour I don't remember since when. Thanks.

>-Sewer Salmon-> ~~~ said...

10 extra points for quoting Ghalib in a Malayali blog ;)

musical km said...

Hate is an unnecessary burden, the earlier you shrug it off the lighter and better youwill feal,

km

Mayacassis said...

love n hate..it's all the name of the game

Cosmic Voices said...

liked the ghalib's quote.....