Tuesday, May 23, 2006

Talk

‘Talk’, they say. ‘Otherwise how will people know that you are intelligent’.


I have heard this rant from the time when I could mumble only a couple of words to this day when my speech quite ok. But still my vocal cords betray me at some vital moments. Very shameful, it seems.

Experts say it is in my mind – it is purely psychological. ‘If you can talk to me with clarity, why not with others?’ is the question. The solutions: take a deep breath – don’t premeditate – be relaxed. I try all that but my voice still chokes. It is physical or psychological is open to debate.

One day a messiah appeared, I repeated my problem to him expecting the same ‘it is in your mind’ kind of reply. But what he said stunned me: ‘you don’t need to improve, you see communication is a two way street. If you are putting maximum effort to talk, the listener should at least put some effort in understanding what you are saying”.

Now I thank him every time my voice fails me.

4 comments:

JamesBright said...

That is very true..! You shouldn't even think about it anymore..!

Paresh Palicha said...

Thanks Doc. This problem has bothered me for long, that is why I wrote this.

harimohan said...

as i told u paresh when i talked to u today i felt happy u were wonderful

neelima said...

So true!!!